ANTISHOKARIZING MEN

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Written by a MAN:

The recent incidences of murder and violence against women is a clear indication of what kind of men the society is raising. We are raising insecure sissies and salmons with fickle emotional bones.

We must teach our boys that it is OK not to be loved back, it is OK to be rejected, it is OK to be dumped....that it is OK for a woman to make personal decisions on her love life without being victimized.

The things we are punishing women for are things men do everyday and no one has killed us. Men cheat everyday, men dump women everyday, men use women everyday, men reject women everyday......men commit all manner of emotional evils against women every other time and no one has been slaughtered.

Men, we are expected to protect women not to harm them. Not every woman you want will want you back however much money you spend trying to buy her feelings and you must respect that. Na hii ushenzi ya ety ooh I spent my money on a woman ikome......were you robbed? And when you are dumped accept it with grace kuna upendo wa Yesu. 

It is all fun and games until it is your daughter with a slit throat or a smashed head.

UKIACHWA WACHIKA!

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